Know someone who might be a great fit for me? Whether you’re a best friend, sibling, or co-worker—this part’s for you.
Welcome to the Matchmaker Challenge! Do you know a woman who could be my perfect match? If so, I want to hear from you! Not only could you be responsible for sparking a meaningful connection, but you’ll also get rewarded through my tiered bounty system. The more dates we go on and the deeper the relationship, the bigger the reward for you!
Even if no one comes to mind, I’d love your help spreading the word.
Tiered Rewards System
Tier 1: 1 Date
Reward: Coffee’s on me! You’ll get a $20 gift card as a thank-you for the introduction.
Tier 2: 3 Dates
Reward: Date night on me! Two movie tickets plus a gift card for concessions so you can enjoy your own night out. That’s three dates for me, one date night reward for you. I call that matchmaking ROI.
Tier 3: Exclusivity
Reward: I’ll donate $50 to the charity of your choice. (I reserve the right to veto if the charity doesn’t align with my values—feel free to reach out if you have any questions about this.)
Tier 4: Long-Term Exclusivity (after 6 months exclusive)
Reward: I’ll design and build a custom piece of furniture for you, with up to 10-20 hours of craftsmanship. Your home deserves a one-of-a-kind piece—think side table, end table, coffee table, lamp, ceiling light, or shelf! This isn’t IKEA furniture—it’s custom-crafted, just like the match you made. Bless you.
Tier 5: 1 Year Together or Engagement
Reward: $500 cash. You’re basically Cupid at this point!
Tier 6: Marriage
Reward: An additional $500 cash, the opportunity to give a speech or toast at the reception, and honorary Aunt or Uncle status to my first child—a role that comes with lifelong bragging rights!
1. Submit Your Referral 🕵️
Simply fill out the form below, or reach out directly, with the potential match’s details. You can tell me why you think we’d click, or just submit their name and contact info. Either way, I’m excited to meet them!
2. I Go on a Date 📆
If I meet up with your match and we hit it off, you’ll start earning rewards. Check out the tiers to see how your matchmaking skills can really pay off!
3. Collect Your Bounty 🏆
For each milestone in the relationship, you’ll get your reward. The deeper the connection, the bigger the prize. Let’s make this happen together!
Q: Can I refer more than one person?
A: Absolutely! There’s no limit on how many people you can refer. The more matches, the better—just make sure they’re people you genuinely think I’d click with!
Q: What happens if more than one person refers the same match?
A: Great question! The first person to submit the referral will be credited, so make sure to submit it as soon as you have someone in mind.
Q: How do I know if the charity I pick for the $50 donation is eligible?
A: I reserve the right to veto a charity if it doesn’t align with my values, but don’t worry! If you’re unsure, feel free to reach out, and we can chat about it.
Q: What if my referral doesn’t want to be set up?
A: Consent is key! Please make sure the person you’re referring is open to being contacted and introduced. I won’t reach out to anyone who hasn’t given their OK to be set up.
Q: How long does it take to receive a reward?
A: Rewards will be sent once each milestone is reached. For example, after the first date, I’ll send over that $20 coffee gift card, and so on for each tier.
Q: Can I claim a reward if the relationship ends before the milestone?
A: Unfortunately, no. The milestone needs to be fully met for the reward to be claimed (e.g., the relationship needs to last 6 months for the long-term exclusivity reward).
Q: What kind of furniture can you build for the custom piece?
A: I’m open to discussing design ideas with you! Think side table, end table, coffee table, lamp, ceiling light, or shelf. The piece will be a one-of-a-kind, just like the match you helped find!
Q: Can I refer someone from outside the US?
A: For now, the referral program is focused on matches in the greater Seattle area. If your referral is from the PNW, go ahead and submit!
Q: Can I refer someone from outside the greater Seattle Area?
A: While the referral program is mainly for connecting with matches in the greater Seattle area, I’m open to possibilities! If your match has the desire, intention, or plans to move to the PNW, feel free to submit them. We’ll see where things go!
Q: How will out-of-area referrals affect how dates are counted and considered for the rewards?
A: If a referral is from out of the area and an in-person date isn’t possible, the Tier One First Date reward will be awarded after a video date. A video date should be intentional—time set aside to really connect and get to know each other. A casual video chat or quick vibe check won’t count as a First Date. For the second and third dates, they’ll need to be similarly planned and meaningful beyond simple calls.
Q: What happens if I submit someone but they don’t respond or aren’t interested?
A: No worries! Not all matches are meant to be, and I won’t hold it against you. I appreciate the effort, and you’re always welcome to try again!
Q: What if you're not interested in going on a date after connecting?
A: Not every introduction will be a perfect match, and that’s okay! If I don’t feel a connection or decide not to pursue a date, I’ll let you know. Your effort is still appreciated, and you’re always welcome to refer someone else in the future!
Q: Are you open to dating men or non-binary individuals?
A: I really appreciate the heart behind every referral, but I’m only looking to date women—so please keep that in mind when submitting a referral.