🗓️ Age - 36 - 1989
♂️ Sex - Straight Man
📏 Height - 5’ 7”
🏠 Home - Snohomish, WA
🖥️ Job - Ops Mgr, Hot Tub store
💍 Looking for - Life Partner
👩❤️👨 Relationship Type - Monogamy
👨👩👧👦 Family - No kids / Wants Kids
✝️ Faith - Christian
🏛️ Politics - Moderate
🍸 Drinking - Yes
🚭 Smoking - No
I’m Joel—35. I’m creative by nature and love working with my hands—whether I’m in the gym, the workshop, or making my house feel more like home with custom furniture or (let’s be honest) yet another plant. I love building things—spaces, moments, and connections that matter.
I’m part of Bright City Church in Everett, where I serve in the kids’ ministry—a church that holds to the truth of Scripture while leaving room for the Spirit to move and people to feel deeply loved.
I love deep conversations, spontaneous laughter, thoughtful surprises, and finding ways to show up well for the people in my life. I’m building toward a life that’s rich in faith, full of joy, and grounded in something real—and I’d love to find a woman excited to build that kind of life together. Someone who radiates joy with a hint of sass.
Picture us sharing deep conversations and deeper laughs over steaming coffee in the morning, finding rhythm in the chaos throughout the day, and ending the night with good drinks and talks about life, faith, and everything in between. If you can match my energy for cozy nights, shared goals, and spontaneous dance parties in the kitchen, we just might click.
Faith
My faith in Jesus is the lens through which I see the world. It shapes how I love, how I lead, how I navigate conflict, and how I show up—both in quiet moments and big decisions. I’m looking for a woman who shares that foundation. Someone who sees faith and church not as boxes to check, but as an integrated part of daily life—something that forms how we grow, serve, and build a future together.
Health
Health isn’t about perfection—it’s about intention. After years of navigating body image and personal transformation, I’ve built a lifestyle rooted in movement, nutrition, and long-term wellness. I’m drawn to someone who values caring for her body—not out of pressure, but as a way to show up fully for life. With energy. With presence. With joy.
Growth
I’m committed to growth in my faith, mindset, and relationships. That means doing the inner work, staying curious, and choosing humility over ego. I’d love to be with a woman who shares that same posture: grounded in self-awareness, open to being challenged, and passionate about becoming more whole, side by side.
Just a few peeks into how I think, live, and accidentally start home improvement projects I didn’t mean to.
Remembering the small things that make people feel seen. Birthdays, comfort foods, random things you said in passing three weeks ago? Locked in.
Host incredible dinner parties, dance in the kitchen, and build a life that’s intentional, faith-filled, joy-soaked, and full of laughter—even when the dishes pile up or the plan falls apart.
Wake up, make a pour-over—I’m talking scale and hand-ground beans, it’s a whole process. Then a little Bible reading as I sip to get the day started right.
Something cozy and creative—your favorite comfort food, somehow with extra protein and fewer calories. For dessert? Affogato, made with fresh espresso on the stove and a perfect scoop of vanilla ice cream.
I’ll start a chore, get distracted organizing the pantry, and somehow end up fixing a drawer that wasn’t even broken.